The cling thing.....

Came across this in a book i read recently

"Learn to detach.....but detachment doesn't mean you don't let the experience penetrate you.On the contrary,you let it penetrate fully.That's how you are able to leave it"
Mitch Albom,Tuesdays with Morrie.


It's so apt for those small tiny attachments in life we don't want but hopelessly keep clinging on to.

the stuff of thought.......

I sometimes wonder why I care so much about what other people think.......I tend to have these weird theories for every odd little thing, which are totally justified if I explain them to you (in painstaking details of course).More on them later.

Lately I have been spending too much time with Roxy. That's her.
Ya I know she's a fish, but she's by far the sexiest in my fish tank and she's a great listener too :p

Days are getting sultrier and nights sweatier in Kolkata as the age-hold ceiling fan keeps moving with persistent angry groans.....

I by the way am trying to do the following:

• to get over Saturday-night loneliness
• to get the lying cheating bastard of an ex-bf out of my head
• to resist giving in to chocolates(they monstrously take over me)
• to stop leching at the phenomenally hot guy in my neighbourhood
• to read up as many books as possible(not because I don't have anything else to do)
• to remember to feed Roxy(since I never forget myself)
• to stop obsessing about why I’m always broke when there's a sale in shopper's stop
• to stop attending "biye-baris" so as to perpetually avoid aunties who think it's my turn next
• to go home more often(not that it helps much)
• to stop daydreaming in my deutsch classes and not laugh when sir makes funny faces to teach us how to pronounce the words..

Whoa!! I got ten things already and I could go on forever....
I guess I'm sleeping too less and thinking too much.

My male bashing......

I either have a bad case of blogger's block or I have finally come to the realization that I have nothing interesting to say and that it may be a sign that I shouldn't write. I usually find blogging kind of therapeutic and I definitely need therapy because I'm crazier than a shithouse rat.(For sure anyone who knows me will back me up on that.)
This post was long due and i just have to do this to get it out of my system.So here goes,ten reasons why i hate men and i will always continue to so no matter who or what tries to change it.


1.I hate guys who don’t understand any part of the word NO. I mean there are only so many times you can ask a guy to back off…but “he” still doesn’t get the bloody point!!


2.It’s very irritating when your guy refuses to shave (referring to facial hair here). Agreed he looks rugged and handsome and all that, but what when you wanna lick ice cream off his face? :P


3.I detest guys with no balls. I mean they are the kind that will pass comments on a girl when in a big group, but ask them to go up to a girl and strike a conversation and they will shit their pants.



4.What is it with guys and defaming girls who refuse to date them? The minute she says “am not interested”, he will go ahead and tell the whole world she’s a whore! And if she goes out with him, he’ll tell everyone she slept with him! How pathetic!!!



5.The above point leads me to this one: guys seem to think that women who drink and smoke are easy to take to bed. Why???? I just don’t get it ( no references to anyone in particular!!)



6.I hate it when guys stare at a woman’s boobs when talking to her. Some do it discreetly, while some are so fucking shameless that it disgusts me. Women should probably stare at such guys’ crotch while they do so. Wonder if that’ll help or make things worse…



7.I hate guys who equate perspiration (read body odour) with masculinity. A lot of men nowadays take care of personal hygiene, and ensure they smell good, but there are loads that don’t, and being around them literally takes your breath away.



8.I hate guys who are extra chivalrous. You know the kinds that will insist on dropping you home in spite of the fact that you can go yourself; the kind that won’t even let you pay the bill at a restaurant…Am not sure if you call that chivalry!



9.There are those who have unresolved mommy issues and expect their girlfriends to keep mothering them all their life yet pretend to be all macho and hunky on the outside.I mean grow up !!!



10.Then there is just the opposite kind that thinks guys are superior to gals. I don't think men are even half a notch above women!



Ahhh......I'm already feeling better !!!